While every relationship is different, statistics show that many people choose to end their marriages for similar reasons. Why do people often choose to end their marriage?
Financial issues
Money problems can place a heavy burden on a marriage. Differences in spending habits, financial goals and the stress of debt can all drive a wedge between partners. In fact, a recent poll of divorcees showed that credit card debt and financial secrecy were a part of one in three divorces.
Infidelity
Being unfaithful to a partner can destroy the trust foundational to any relationship. Infidelity often results from underlying issues in the marriage such as emotional or physical dissatisfaction. The betrayal can be difficult to forgive and is frequently cited as a decisive factor in the decision to divorce. In fact, around 60 percent of couples say that infidelity was a reason for their divorce.
Domestic violence
Unfortunately, domestic abuse is also a common reason for divorce, playing a part in nearly one in four divorces. Abuse creates an environment of fear and control that is unhealthy for any relationship. Victims may decide to leave as a way to ensure their safety and well-being.
Struggles with addiction
Addiction can have devastating impacts on a marriage. Substance abuse can lead to financial strain, legal issues, and emotional distress for both partners. The sober partner may feel overwhelmed by the constant chaos and may decide to end the marriage as a form of self-preservation.
Growing apart
Over time, some couples may grow apart as their interests, desires, and life paths diverge. This can be a result of marrying at a young age and changing a lot as they aged, not spending enough time together or not sharing in each other’s lives. Over time, spouses may feel that they no longer know each other or that they are no longer compatible.
Understanding these common reasons for divorce can help couples recognize potential problems in their own relationships and determine when it is healthier for them to part ways with their spouse.
